I just don't get it | shyladevonne's Blog

How girls can be so blind to guys being complete jerks to them. And think they are in love with them. I got past this phase when I was in 7th grade. Now I'm a senior, and girls around me are still falling for the same crap!

One of my friends claims she's in love with this guy. She's lost friends over him. She's 16 and he's 19. She's known him for less than a year, and she's never dated him. I don't know what else they've done besides kissing, (I know not sex though) but she hints that they may have done other things. Right now he has a girlfriend, but he still meets her & hangs out with her & MAKES out with her. Supposedly his girlfriend doesn't care what he does. Supposedly he has went out with other girls right after meeting them. She said she told him she loved him the first MONTH she knew him! Two of her best friends have also fallen in "love" with him, and he hasn't dated them either. I've met the guy once and he's nothing to write home about. He obviously gets a kick out of girls falling head over heels for him, and likes to play with their emotions, and they don't see that.

Anybody who even dared question her "love" for this guy, she has attacked and ceased friendship with them. A few she made up with, but she still doesn't trust them. People have tod her she's obsessed, and she gets furious. I haven't said anything because I don't want unecessary drama, but it's true. She IS obsessed, and she DOES need to move on & stop letting this jerk run her life. Talking to her doesn't work, and it's been a while now and she doesn't see it herself, so I guess there's nothing that can be done.

How can you think you love someone that doesn't love you? How can you even CHASE someone that long, that keeps teasing you, wont date you, calls you names, ignores you, cheats, etc.? And then get MAD when a ton of your friends tell you to move on??